After even more extensive research into the perfect earphones, a friend lead me to this pair, the Sennheiser MX 365.
Its the shits.
Its exactly what I've been wanting this whole time. Its almost exactly like the Sony MDR-E 818 LP but it has the twisted golden jack like i wanted, but it also has a tiny bit more bass which to be honest was lacking from the cheap sony pair. By the way the bass on the Sony EX210 was overpowering.
see ya Sony, your crap.
Oh BTW, did i not mention that you get a choice of colour earphone? (not the lead though >_< )
I got orange. what a surprise ^-^